I read this article from one of my favorite human beings ever, Glennon Doyle Melton, who is the author of the book, Carry on Warrior and the author of the blog, Momastery. 

She is phenomenal in a thousand different ways and I hope to one day meet her and when I do I will give her the BIGGEST hug, because she inspires me on a daily basis.

So in 2011 she posted this BEA-U-TIFUL article about school and I have read it countless times and tonight while reading Jackson and I came across it and I read it to him.

It was all it took for me to read it to him through tears, and I knew I just had to share it with all of you wonderful people!

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Hey Baby.

Tomorrow is a big day. First grade – wow.

Jackson – When I was in first grade, there was a little boy in my class named Adam.

Adam looked a little different and he wore funny clothes and sometimes he even smelled a little bit. Adam didn’t smile. He hung his head low and he never looked at anyone at all. Adam never did his homework. I don’t think his mom reminded him like yours does. The other kids teased Adam a lot. Whenever they did, his head hung lower and lower and lower. I never teased him, but I never told the other kids to stop, either.

And I never talked to Adam, not once. I never invited him to sit next to me at lunch, or to play with me at recess. Instead, he sat and played by himself. He must have been very lonely.

I still think about Adam every day. I wonder if Adam remembers me? Probably not. I bet if I’d asked him to play, just once, he’d still remember me.

I think that God puts people in our lives as gifts to us.

The children in your class this year, they are some of God’s gifts to you.

So please treat each one like a gift from God. Every single one.

Baby, if you see a child being left out, or hurt, or teased, a little part of your heart will hurt a little.  I want you to trust that heart- ache. Your whole life, we want you to notice and trust your heart-ache. That heart ache is called compassion, and it is God’s signal to you to do something. It is God saying, Jackson! Wake up! One of my babies is hurting! Do something to help! Whenever you feel compassion – be thrilled! It means God is speaking to you, and that is magic. It means He trusts you and needs you.

Sometimes the magic of compassion will make you step into the middle of a bad situation right away.

Compassion might lead you to tell a teaser to stop it and then ask the teased kid to play. You might invite a left-out kid to sit next to you at lunch. You might choose a kid for your team first who usually gets chosen last.

These things will be hard to do, but you can do hard things.

Sometimes you will feel compassion but you won’t step in right away. That’s okay, too. You might choose instead to tell your teacher and then tell us. We are on your team – we are on your whole class’ team. Asking for help for someone who is hurting is not tattling, it is doing the right thing. If someone in your class needs help, please tell me, baby. We will make a plan to help together.

Jackson – I do not care if you are the smartest or fastest or coolest or funniest.

There will be lots of contests at school, and I don’t care if you win a single one of them. I don’t care if you get straight As. I don’t care if the girls think you’re cute or whether you’re picked first or last for kickball at recess. I don’t care if you are your teacher’s favorite or not. I don’t care if you have the best clothes or most Pokemon cards or coolest gadgets.

I don’t send you to school to become the best at anything at all. I already love you as much as I possibly could. You do not have to earn my love or pride and you can’t lose it. That’s done.

I send you to school to practice being brave and kind.

Kind people are brave people. Because brave is not a feeling that you should wait for. It is a decision. It is a decision that compassion is more important than fear, than fitting in, than following the crowd.

Trust me, baby, it is. It is more important.

Just be grateful and kind and brave. That’s all you ever need to be.

Take care of those classmates of yours, and your teacher, too. You Belong to Each Other. You are one lucky boy . . . with all of these new gifts to unwrap this year.

I love you so much that my heart might explode.

Enjoy and cherish your gifts.

And thank you for being my favorite gift of all time.

Love,
Mama

*the article has been altered to fit our story and only certain paragraphs have been shared.

The original article can be read here.

In the big things,
in the small things,
live gratitude.

In the pain,
and in the joy,
live gratitude.

Through laughter,
and through tears,
live gratitude.

It truly is a choice-
It is not happy people who are thankful, it is thankful people who are happy.

Take a moment today- live gratitude.
Whisper it in the joy of simple things- the green grass, the blue skies- and hold onto it in midst the hard things, whispers of gratitude will change your life.

I promise. I am living proof.

My good friend is hosting a fundraiser for Jackson!

It begins Thursday, August 20th and runs until Sunday, August 30th.

She sells Thirty-One and ALL of the proceeds will be going to Parent Project Muscular Dystrophy in honor of Jackson.

It begins Thursday, August 20th and runs until Sunday, August 30th.

Here is the link to the Facebook Event

and the DIRECT LINK TO SHOP IS HERE.

ALL commission proceeds from this fundraiser will be donated to Parent Project Muscular Dystrophy in Jackson’s honor.

New Products! New Prints! New Personalization Options! New Catalog Season! It’s never too early to start Christmas shopping, while having the profits donated to a wonderful cause.

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-Please remember to ship the order to your house

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-Or go to www.mythirtyone.com/aleece and select “PPMD Fundraiser” then “shop now.”

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There are some GORGEOUS new designs and prints and really something for everyone.

Please help us out because research for this disease is SO greatly needed.

To read about our journey with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy, click here.